10 Creative Ways To Pamper The Women In Your Life

Fun, sweet and practical ideas to celebrate the ladies, including some fantastic deals for SAFRA members. 

By Sasha Gonzales        4 May 2023

The women in our lives – our mothers, grandmothers, sisters, daughters, friends, colleagues and more – do so much for us with their caring ways and unending sacrifices. Here are some ideas to show your appreciation, admiration and support for the women in your life and your community, this month and all year round – and some even come with special discounts for SAFRA members.

1. Say it with love

Sure, you might tell your Significant Other all the time that you love her, but why not express your feelings more elaborately with a romantic love letter? Remind her of how you felt when you first met and how she’s made you a better person since then, tell her all the things you love about her, and share all the hopes and dreams you have for the future that involve her. Besides making her feel cherished, a love letter is a wonderful keepsake; something she can hold onto and continue to read for years to come. 

Don’t have a Significant Other? Your sister, aunt or friend may also appreciate a heartfelt note from you. 

2. Show your thanks

When was the last time you thanked your mum, grandmother or other mother figure for looking after you and being there for you? Express your appreciation by treating her to a fancy meal, getting her a bouquet of flowers, or doing something to help make her life a little easier. 

Where to go: She’ll love a weekend staycation. Enjoy a special weekend rate (from $238++ with breakfast) for the Deluxe Room at Concorde Hotel. Located on Orchard Road, the hotel is conveniently located for shopping and entertainment. This package includes guaranteed late checkout till 3pm, complimentary room upgrade to Deluxe with Balcony or Deluxe Plus room (subject to room availability), 20% off food and beverages at Hard Rock Cafe (Orchard), and more. Check out safra.sg/promotions/concorde-hotel-singapore for details. Valid till 31 December 2023.

3. Plan a girls’ night out

Organise a fun gathering for your favourite women. Ideas include a movie night, a concert or theatre performance, or anything that will allow them to relax, let their hair down and forget about their cares for a while. 

Where to go: They’ll have a blast singing karaoke all night. Reserve a VIP room at SAFRA Jurong’s Jewel Music Box and get 15% off with a minimum spend of $630 (Mon-Thur), $650 (Sunday) or $850 (Fri, Sat and public holidays). SAFRA members also enjoy 10% off on weekdays between 1pm and 5pm, and 10% off alcoholic beverages on weekdays and public holidays. Go to safra.sg/amenities-offerings/jewel-music-box for more details and to book. 

4. Book a high-tea feast

Treat them to high-tea, with all their favourite tea-time bites. There are many hotels and cafes to choose from that offer an excellent selection for different tastes and budgets. Your favourite women will appreciate having the afternoon to catch up over an indulgent spread.

Where to go: Enjoy high-tea at home. Durian fans will love the array of durian cakes and pastries at The Deli at Goodwood Park Hotel. Besides mainstays like the signature D24 Mousse Cake, D24 Crêpe and D24 Puff, try some new handcrafted creations, including the D24 White Chocolate Raspberry Enchantment, the decadent D24 Pandan Coconut Gula Melaka Cake, and the refreshing D24 Pineapple-lime Zest Dome. SAFRA members get 20% off selected durian delights. Find out more at safra.sg/promotions/the-deli-at-goodwood-park-hotel. Valid till 3 August 2023.

5. Be her handyman or helper for the day

Does Mum or Grandma have errands to run or chores to do around the house? Perhaps they need to repair a broken lighting fixture, move furniture around, get rid of clutter, wash their car, shop for groceries for the week, or clean their home. Offer whatever assistance you can and get the job done, so that they can take a break. 

6. Spruce up her home

Surprise Mum, Sis or your spouse with a mini home makeover. Create a feature wall in the living room, paint the kitchen cabinets, swap out the door handles, replace the bathroom fixtures, add a frame to the bathroom mirror, or install a tile backsplash in the kitchen. You don’t have to spend a lot of money; even small and inexpensive changes can make a huge difference to the overall look of the space. 

Where to go: Refresh the walls with wallpaper that features beautiful prints inspired by the tropics. Wall decals are another cool way to add a decorative touch. Design studio Hello Circus specialises in 100% PVC and VOC (Volatile Organic Compounds) -free wallpaper that’s durable and easy to maintain. SAFRA members enjoy $50 off their wallpapers with a minimum spend of $550 or get 15% off wall decals. Click on safra.sg/promotions/hello-circus for further details. Valid till 31 December 2023. 

7. Go on a date night

When was the last time you enjoyed a quiet night out with your partner? Make dinner reservations, get dressed up, and make an intimate occasion of it. If you prefer a more laid-back evening, prepare a picnic and head to the beach for a romantic meal under the stars. 

Where to go: One of Singapore’s pioneer cocktail bars, Jekyll & Hyde at Neil Road serves Singapore soul food paired with whimsical cocktails to elevate your dining experience. SAFRA members enjoy 10% off the total bill. Go to safra.sg/promotions/jekyll-hyde for more details. Valid till 31 December 2023.

8. Encourage her fitness goals

If your special lady is thinking of starting a new fitness-related hobby or just getting into shape, show your support by signing her up for a gym membership or yoga class, hiring a personal trainer to work with her, or giving her shopping vouchers for some new fitness gear. 

Where to go: Ballet is suitable for all ages and abilities and a good way to keep fit. The Ballet Academy, an accredited Royal Academy of Dance (RAD) ballet school, offers a range of programmes for children, teens and adults. SAFRA members can sign up for a free ballet trial (valid for first-timers only). For more details, visit safra.sg/promotions/exclusively-for-safra-members-free-ballet-trial. Valid till 31 December 2023.

9. Support women-owned businesses 

Buy from businesses that are run by women – it will help keep them running and motivate female entrepreneurs to continue to grow their ambitions. In addition to purchasing their products or using their services, you can show your support by collaborating with them if you can, writing a positive review about their business, and tagging their brands on your social media posts. You can also tell your friends to buy their products or use their services and ask them to get the word out in turn.

10. Get involved in women’s causes

Whether it’s donating to charities that help low-income women and girls from disadvantaged backgrounds or volunteering your time at organisations that offer programmes that empower women, there’s a lot you can do to advance the status of women, create more opportunities for them in society, and advocate for their rights and gender equality. Some worthy organisations include Daughters of Tomorrow, WINGS and United Women Singapore.

NSmen, sign up for your complimentary 1-year SAFRA membership and enjoy discounts on dining and shopping purchases at over 2,000 merchant outlets islandwide, as well as members’ rates at more than 45 sports facilities at SAFRA clubs! What’s more, your family can enjoy the privileges too – your 1st dependent pays $10/year, and it’s free for your 2nd dependent onwards. Click here for more details. 

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