Most of us would know February as the month for romance because of Valentine’s Day.
But I know it as the month where retailers and restaurateurs rejoice because they get to charge exorbitant prices for meals and gifts.
Seriously, how do you justify selling a single rose for $10?
Florists would use the law of supply and demand as an excuse, saying that roses cost significantly more on this day because there is a surge in demand while supply is static.
But can someone please explain to me why my salary hasn’t increased significantly even though there is a surge in demand for my writing skills while supply is static?
I’m sure supply is static. In fact, it might even be dwindling. Have you seen how the young people write these days?
This is what my youngest cousin (she’s 22) wrote to me a couple of weeks ago on WhatsApp.
Her: Yo bro, what’s the tea?? I heard our cousin Vanessa broke up with her rich bf!
Me: What tea? I prefer coffee.
Her: ….
Me: To be exact, I prefer kopi peng siu dai.
Her: Gyatt.
Me: Do you mean Hyatt? I heard the afternoon tea there quite nice leh.
So, to my dear wife, I’m afraid I won’t be buying you roses. I’ll still get you flowers, but those that have more practical use.
I’m thinking chrysanthemums? At least we could make chrysanthemum tea.
There is another occasion in February that I find more significant and can resonate with – Total Defence Day. In fact, it takes place just a day after Valentine’s, and I find this close connection between the two pretty apt.
By apt I mean appropriate. Not the song APT. Please, please, please. Enough of that already.
So why is Total Defence Day even related to Valentine’s Day?
In the words of MINDEF, “Total Defence involves every Singaporean playing a part, individually and collectively, to build a strong, secure and cohesive nation.”
In case you didn’t know, there are six pillars to Total Defence: Military Defence, Civil Defence, Economic Defence, Social Defence, Digital Defence, and Psychological Defence.
As you can see, jumping to the defence of our dear nation doesn’t just involve taking up arms and defending our nation. It’s a holistic, all-hands-on-deck effort.
And yes, even Valentine’s Day can be a tactical opportunity for nation-building. Who knew roses and candlelit dinners could bolster Total Defence? Let us count the ways.
Economic Defence: Love is Big Business
Let’s start with the most obvious one. When you’re splurging on that expensive bouquet of roses (because apparently, nothing says love like overpriced flowers), that romantic dinner with a 5-course menu you can’t pronounce, or that shiny piece of jewellery, you’re injecting money into the economy.
Think of the florists, the restaurateurs, the gift shops, and the artisans whose businesses thrive during this season. Your Valentine’s Day spending not only strengthens the economy but also keeps jobs alive. And if you decide to fall in love, get married, and start a family – guess what? You’re securing Singapore’s future workforce. Double win!
Social Defence: Strengthening Ties, One Love Story at a Time
What better way to build a cohesive and harmonious society than by spreading love? Valentines’ Day is the perfect occasion to connect – not just romantically but with friends, family, and even colleagues. Celebrate platonic love with your besties or plan a group date to foster stronger bonds within your NS buddies and friends.
A society that communicates and connects well is one that is resilient in the face of challenges. After all, it’s harder to stir up discord when love is in the air, and everyone’s feeling all warm and fuzzy inside. Cupid: 1, chaos-makers: 0.
Psychological Defence: Love and Pride in Our Home
Valentine’s Day is more than just a celebration of love between individuals; it’s a chance to nurture love for the nation and strengthen Psychological Defence. When we show care and appreciation for those around us, we also reinforce our collective identity and pride in Singapore.
Our psychological well-being is closely tied to a sense of belonging. When we celebrate Valentine’s Day by cherishing loved ones and taking pride in the beauty of our shared home, we cultivate a stronger, more united spirit.
So, this Valentine’s Day, remember: love isn’t just about romance – it’s about appreciating the people and places that make life meaningful. By spreading love and pride, you’re playing a vital role in fortifying Singapore’s Psychological Defence.
Digital Defence: Swipe Right for Nation-Building
In today’s hyper-connected world, dating apps are the new matchmakers. With just a swipe, Singaporeans are finding their perfect matches – and contributing to Digital Defence. How? By using these platforms responsibly and staying alert to scams or cyber threats.
When you avoid the catfish and report fake profiles, you’re not just protecting yourself; you’re safeguarding the digital spaces where love blossoms. So go ahead, update your profile, but remember: love responsibly, and swipe with vigilance.
Civil Defence: Be Your Partner’s Hero
Valentine’s Day is a wonderful reminder that love isn’t just about romantic gestures – it’s about being there for your loved ones, especially in times of need. After all, Civil Defence starts at home and extends to our communities.
Take the opportunity this Valentine’s Day to brush up on your first-aid skills. Knowing how to perform CPR, treat minor injuries, or even recognise signs of distress can be life-saving, whether it’s for your partner or someone in your neighbourhood. Imagine how much more romantic your candlelit dinner would be if you had peace of mind knowing you’re equipped to handle a choking incident (not that we’re wishing for one, of course!).
Civil Defence is about being your partner’s and community’s hero, ensuring that everyone feels supported and safe. Because nothing says “I love you” quite like being prepared to save the day.
Military Defence: Winning Hearts, Defending Our Nation
Okay, we admit this one’s a stretch. But hear us out: every couple celebrating Valentine’s Day is a testament to peace and stability. After all, it’s hard to woo someone in the middle of a conflict. Our servicemen and women who safeguard Singapore’s peace ensure we have the luxury of planning elaborate date nights and surprise proposals without fear.
So, when you clink glasses during your romantic dinner, don’t forget to toast to the NSmen and military personnel who make it possible. Cheers to love and security!
LOL Mondays is an ongoing series of slice-of-life stories from freelance writer and NSman Ethan Lim.
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