{"id":24571,"date":"2023-12-22T18:00:25","date_gmt":"2023-12-22T10:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/?p=24571"},"modified":"2023-12-29T15:42:04","modified_gmt":"2023-12-29T07:42:04","slug":"nsmen-share-expectations-vs-reality-of-national-service","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/nsmen-share-expectations-vs-reality-of-national-service\/","title":{"rendered":"NSmen Share: Expectations vs Reality Of National Service"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Remember the moment when you received your Enlistment Notice \u2013 that feeling of dread, strangely mixed with excitement? <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was a stark reminder that National Service is a tangible reality. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Days leading up to enlistment were a blur, a frenzy of information gathering from those who have served and forum browsing to unravel what exactly is the NS experience. Speculations about what this mysterious military life was about intensified. But how realistic and true were these perceptions held by pre-NSFs?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We ask four NSmen to share their thoughts on what they initially expected the NS experience to be like, and whether those expectations aligned with their realities.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_24574\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-24574\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-24574 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Vincent.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Vincent.jpg 400w, https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Vincent-286x300.jpg 286w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-24574\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Vincent Su (above left)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span>Back when I was just fresh out of Polytechnic, no one really shared much about NS life, unless you count the veterans who constantly reminded us how we have it so much easier. All I had to work with was my short stint at the National Police Cadet Corps.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Essentially, my preconceptions can be summarised into 4 points:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We must do exactly what we are told to do.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We cannot come and go as we please.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be a lot of drills, exercise sessions and so much sweating.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There will be lots and lots of punishments (aka code reds).<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Years later, I\u2019m happy to report that the contemporary military experience was far less exaggerated or daunting as I assumed it would be! When I was posted to 160 SQN, there was a good balance of work and play \u2013 we were diligent soldiers, but we weren\u2019t afraid to unwind and let loose during our breaks. Not only was our mess hall furnished with a gym and a swimming pool, but it also had loads of beer and delicious goodies. Really, it was a pretty SAFRA-like experience to me.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What I didn\u2019t expect: <\/span>I made many friends from all walks of life and among them were buddies who were on the journey to becoming New Citizens at Basic Military Training (BMT). It is so heartening to know that everyone in our little red dot wants to do their part. It was definitely interesting to hear them run through military commands in Malay (though they did their very best)!\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><i>&#8211; 3SG Vincent Su, 160 SQN, Signals<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-24573 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Ernest.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Ernest.jpg 400w, https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Ernest-286x300.jpg 286w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span>Before I was called up, NS to me was this enigmatic coming-of-age ritual shrouded away at this faraway island of Pulau Tekong.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My parents hail from Malaysia, and I didn\u2019t have an older brother. Sure, I had heard snippets about military life from peers, but rarely did I come across any first-hand recount that revealed anything that we didn\u2019t already know.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The actual day of enlistment hit me hard. It really was a cultural shock. Just imagine, upon being ushered onto this distant isle with a herd of students-turned-soldiers, you are immediately greeted with stern sergeants yelling at you to hurry up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think the hardest part of it all was learning and embracing the unique hierarchy system. The nuanced dynamics between the ranks, the regimental adherence to the pecking order and the constant yelling \u2013 it could be overwhelming.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In hindsight, I do think the hierarchy is necessary to get things moving. NS certainly can be challenging, but it can be equally as meaningful. I\u2019m grateful for the many opportunities that were given to me during my service.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><i>&#8211; LTA Ernest Tan, Logistics (Maintenance)<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-24576 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-ThomasYeo.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-ThomasYeo.jpg 400w, https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-ThomasYeo-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-ThomasYeo-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNational Service and me are akin to two forlorn lovers who fell apart.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Information about camp life was so obscure, so veiled that there was no good way for us to prepare ourselves for what was to come. The anxiety as a result of the uncertainty just exacerbated the heaviness that I felt on my first day. No orientation, no warning; immediately I\u2019m tossed into a flurry of deafening yells, punishments and a stressful day-to-day schedule.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The military back then wasn\u2019t as considerate as it is today. Any signs of weakness were seen as an attempt to \u201cChao Keng\u201d (A Hokkien colloquialism meaning feigning sickness or injury to skip training). I tried hard to assimilate myself into the experience, to process the changes in my daily way of life, to enjoy the military life but truth be told, that really wasn\u2019t the case.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sure, I thought that the military experience would be disruptive, but never had I expected it to take such a toll on me. I\u2019m so glad that the current batch of NSmen are more empathetic and supportive of those going through a rougher time and are aware of the resources available for those in need of help. To those struggling to adjust to their military obligations, stay strong and keep going!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><i>&#8211; CPL Thomas Yeo, 1PDF, Medic<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-24575 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Akmal.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Akmal.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/nsman.safra.sg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/NSmenShareExpectationsvsReality-Akmal-286x300.jpeg 286w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe days leading up to my Enlistment felt like an insurmountable barrier.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, hear me out \u2013 I enjoyed my time in the military. But prior to my enlistment, I was incredibly skinny and frail. It didn\u2019t help that I\u2019m also a very picky eater. With a profile like mine, would you think military life was for me?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strangely, NS was a delightfully pleasant experience. Sure, there were the tribulations and obstacles that defined this rite of passage, but as they say \u2013 the strongest bonds are forged by the fiercest of flames. You see the best and worst in people during some of our most challenging moments, and thankfully, there were more good than bad!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If I could do it all over again, I would hope that I would be less anxious about what\u2019s to come and instead, focus more on the present.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><i>&#8211; CFC Akmal Rifqi, Medical Response Force, (CBRE) Combat Medic<\/i><\/strong><strong><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>There are only two types of people in Singapore: Those who enjoyed National Service (NS), and those who didn\u2019t \u2013 but all will agree it was a memorable time. In this series, we speak with NSmen who share their most memorable experiences during National Service.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Share your favourite NS memories with us at<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0<strong><em><a href=\"mailto:magnsman@sph.com.sg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">magnsman@sph.com.sg<\/span><\/a>!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><i>Want more articles like this, and other lifestyle content right in your inbox? 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